Help my Hair!

So, I haven’t cut my hair in 9 months, it’s a little past my shoulders, but I think that she likes being short. So, when I was in Koh Phangon, I barely touched my hair, besides washing it… I stopped with the blow dryer and all of the products, and coloring it, etc… and my hair turned to this beautiful platinum blond color that everyone complimented me on, and my hair seemed to be doing relatively well.
Anyway, back it Bangkok, it darkened quickly, so I decided to get it high lighted, and it also became clear that the ends are terribly dry, which I have never had to deal with as I have oily hair. I highlighted it and did some moisturinzing procedure. Well, everything is cheap here and poor quality because the color hardly took.
Anyway, now my hair is falling out whenever I comb it in these huge chunks, and I don’t have a lot to spare!! The ends are also so dry and frizzy. I think that she’ll be happier once I give her a trim. I don’t know if it is the adjustment back to city life, pollution, food, etc…
Ahh, I long for the natural beauty, good-quaility food, no-car, non-polluition of “The Beach.”